Marriage: A Blessing or a Curse

Thursday, January 29, 2009 Leave a Comment


Marriage - a sacred unification of man and women as they embark on a new life together. Seems nice doesn't it? However, obstacles and misunderstandings can tip over the boat just when your not looking.

Marriage can be a blessing when the two of you are of the same wavelength. When you understand his/her ideas and views, when you know when to give space to your husband or your wife, when to give "lambing" or how to do it, these are some that you need to consider to create harmony in the relationship.

However, we cannot deny that light and darkness cannot go without each other. Thus, marriage can also be a curse by the mere fact that both of you are different: a man and a woman. Man and women think and act differently. One expects while the other hopes. Each marriage has its own ups and downs. My worst marriage experience may not be the same with yours.

But one thing is for sure and for the good, both makes the best they can to resolve issues between them. It is a matter of commitment and the desire to have a beautiful and peaceful life.

Who wouldn't want a peaceful life?

But sometimes, this isn't the same with others. The problem with this is pride and ego. Each has a level of pride and ego, and this causes the problem to get worse thus extending the problem to quarrel or may even lead to physical harm.

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